By Passman Akpos
there are somethings many marriages suffers in terms of child bearing because of lack of knowledge. The Bible says in Hosea 4:6 my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. In Exodus 23:26 the word of God expressly says, “There shall be no miscarrying or barren in your land….”.This affirm the fact that no matter how long it takes you as a married woman to conceive, is just a matter time, you can’t be barren.
So many women have suffered marital abuse from husband’s family members even sometimes from their own husbands for failure to conceive as when expected.
Making love in marriage is for the beauty and enjoyment of the marriage, but when it comes to child bearing in the place of sex, strict majors should be followed to avoid unnecessary delay in child bearing.
As a reader, you might be wondering where exactly am driving at, before I drop the bombshell, let me give you a background check on a woman who just put to birth. Immediately you put to birth, you automatically be called a breast feeding mother as far as there are no medical conditions base on doctor’s advice that prevented you from breastfeeding your baby.
breastfeeding offers protection from ovulation, the monthly occurrence where you release a mature egg from one of your ovaries.
The key players here are the hormones oxytocin and prolactin, which are responsible for milk production and the let-down reflex.
Increased levels of these hormones actually suppress the brain from making the main hormone that stimulates the ovary to grow an egg each month.
When a mother is breastfeeding exclusively, or even on a consistent basis, it is less likely that she is going to ovulate at all.
Lets found out, as to why, as couples who intend or hoping for the fruit of the womb to avoid sucking of breast in the course of love making.
During pre-intimacy, most men will target the breast and either handle it or suckle it. Doing this with all things being equal, will not affect fertility in any way.
However, the only exceptions are seen in women with high levels of prolactin, which can directly affect pregnancy. Prolactin is a key breastfeeding hormone, when it is produced at a high level in a woman, it can down regulate the other hormones necessary for pregnancy to occur.
This hormone when increase will lead to milky discharge in women. So for such women, suckling of their breast during pre-intimacy will get the hormones increased.
During Lactational Amenorrhea Method, the same principle is applied. With all other factors equal, when the mother exclusively breastfeed the child, it will increase the level of hormones released and that will prevent the lady from getting pregnant.
In couples, breasts facilitate “pair-bonding” and can provide both social and psychological fulfillment to both parties. Most especially men evolved to love breasts because women are likelier to have sex with and/or become attached to lovers who handle their breasts.
This theory was propounded by a renowned neuroscientist Larry Young. According to Young, “more attention to breasts could help build long-term bonds through a ‘cocktail of ancient neuropeptides,’ like the oxytocin (an important hormone involved in milk production) released during pre-intimacy or orgasm.” It is important to note that the same oxytocin, is activated when a woman nurses her infant.
Normally when women’s breasts are suckled, as they are during breastfeeding, the hormone oxytocin is released, this hormone makes the mother feel good and helps her bond with her baby. This same effect is seen among couples too.
She feels loving and attached to both the baby/ man. The same reaction might happen if a man sucks and caresses a woman’s breasts during pre-intimacy.
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